One of the recurring themes in my dreams along with “somebody else’s mess” is the “cunning ploy / plan” theme.
This theme arose in the dream last night concerning two people I once knew.
There is a certain kind of person which cannot resist trying to be cunning and using “clever” tricks to manipulate and seek some kind of advantage or gather some information. They have a play book of tricks and methods and a modus operandi which changes little. There is an expectation that these plays or ploys can be relied upon to secure similar results. They often have some kind of negotiation in mind usually of a transactional nature.
In never occurs to them to be open straightforward and honest. Their ploys can be “relied” upon to secure similar results.
I am pretty bored with the whole cunning ploy theme…Yawn…
If you play a cunning ploy delivery with a straight bat it can cause the ploy to go badly awry. No cunning required on my part just play straight.
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My mother tried to elicit me to cajole her to come to my second wedding. She said that it was difficult and far for her. I replied that if that was the case then I would understand if she did not come.
Many people try to get some emotional manipulation leverage based upon “rules” to which they imagine others will comply. When it goes pear shaped it can be difficult. I can think of a quite a number of cases when other people’s cunning ploys have gone very badly wrong because I have played straight and not played their game. These ploy attempts have had major consequences.
Some people simply cannot conceive of being simple and straightforward. It is just beyond their ability. They do not approach with open hands or open hearts; they are after something.
It is just yawn-some.
For a while I was in “pastoral care” and many students tried to take advantage of the system / me. Unfortunately for them I was in the habit of taking notes and had a good memory. I was prone to repeat their prior narratives to them. Quite a number of schemes failed and the only people who knew were me and them. Confidentiality was important.
Quite why the “cunning ploy” theme is resurfacing again I do not know, but it has been noted by me…
Yawn…









